"She asks people not to do things as often as she asks them to do things," says Bridget. "She might, hypothetically, if you don't end up deciding you want nothing to do with us, just ask you to let her know what you're up to in a general sense and once in a while change what you're doing so you don't interfere with someone else. And then once in a while you can ask her to change what someone else is doing so it doesn't interfere with you. My impression is that the reason she's so keen to figure out strange wishcoiners is because they have the potential to cause a lot of trouble and she wants to avoid that, not because she has magic she wants them to do."